is the women of our dreams out there?

Alot of guys think its impossible to land the girl of their dreams, but I'm here to inform anyone who thinks like that is terribly wrong.The best way to take that girl from work, school, or the grocery store out is too flirt alot and well.

“Hey girl, you’re looking delightfully dazzling today in that dress, is there any way I can see you in it Friday at the movies?” The art of flirting has been going on since the Stone Age, but as time has passed, people have changed and it’s a whole different ballgame in the twenty-first century. Step your game up and don’t be afraid of rejection because confidence will be your best asset in your quest for that cutie you sit next to in math class. Check your baggage at the door because attitudes won’t fly and every girl deserves someone to treat her right. Also, if you plan on making it past the car ride, make sure you have a sense of humor so you can hear laughter rather than crickets.

Step-1 be confident

Confidence is key, so stop shaking with your pre-game nerves, and spit your game like a champ. Girls smell fear like a dog searching for a bone; if they sense it, you will quickly lose any opportunity. Try not to force conversation, make corny jokes, or be phony. If someone doesn’t like you for who you are, then it won’t work anyway because you will just be a fake. So be yourself, and have complete confidence, however, don’t come off as cocky. Don’t settle for just anyone, take pride in how valuable you are and things will fall in place. If she laughs in your face or looks at you as a joke, just shake it off because there are plenty of women out there that will be dying for a shot with you.

Step-2 don't be an a**hole your better than that!

Men are often called, “a**holes.” Women want someone who is going to be a sweetheart. Remember in kindergarten, when the teacher told us to treat others the way we would like to be treated? Well, that applies to dating. If you talk about a girl behind her back, it will just line problems up for you the next day. Would you really want someone doing that to you? Put on your thinking cap, and be the heartthrob that every guy, deep down, can be. Maybe by the end of the night, you will get that meaningful kiss that sparks a fire on her doorstep and in her heart. When you’re ready to talk to her, just remember that two can play games and being charming will bring you a long way.

Step-3- humor

A good laugh will always be the key to a girl’s heart; if you get her to start giggling, you will enjoy each other’s company. We’ve all had that awkward silence on a date where there is nothing to say and you can’t wait to jump back in your car. To avoid this, the best thing to do is replace it with laughter by developing a good sense of humor. When you’re laughing on a date, it means a couple things: You’re enjoying her company and big smirks are on both your faces. If breaking the ice in conversation or a joke is a problem, remember not to try anything elaborate, just be yourself. If you have trouble with making one lady laugh, there are millions of others who will find you hilarious for being yourself. Humor is an easy way to show that you are both having a good time and to prove that the art of flirting is working like a charm.

Now that you have graduated the Flirt Seminar, go out there and try a new game plan. Hold your head up high to the sky and be the most confident guy you can be. Remember to be nice and not a jerk, otherwise, most girls will be walking in the opposite direction. Make sure you have a good time and don’t be afraid to let laughs fly because that means you’re having fun. Be confident, sweet, and humorous –the man of her dreams-- and this will make flirting way easier than it seems.